What to Do When I Don’t Feel Like Worshipping

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I. Introduction

Let’s be honest—there are mornings when worship is the furthest thing from our minds. Things were hectic, didn”t get your coffee, maybe you and your spouse argued, and somehow we’re supposed to open our mouths and sing, “Bless the Lord, O my soul”? Sometimes our hearts just aren’t in it. And then sometimes, for no apparent reason, even if things are okay, you just don’t FEEL like worshipping…And we’re left wondering: Is it even right to go through the motions if I don’t feel anything?

That’s a question many believers wrestle with, and it’s a fair one. After all, worship is supposed to be heartfelt, right? Shouldn’t it overflow from joy and gratitude? Yet we all experience those dry days when our spiritual fire feels like nothing more than a faint flicker. So, what do we do when we don’t feel like worshipping?

Here’s the truth: worship isn’t rooted in our emotions. Our feelings are real and important, but they make terrible foundations. They shift, change, and even betray us. Worship, on the other hand, is built on something far more stable—God’s unchanging worth and our trust in Him.

When I don’t feel like worshipping, I choose to remember that worship is an act of obedience and love, not an emotion-driven performance.

This post will explore how we can still offer God true worship, even when our emotions aren’t lining up. We’ll look at biblical truth, the place of feelings in worship, and why obedience—especially when it’s hard—is one of the most beautiful forms of praise we can give.


II. Worship is About Faith, Not Feelings

The Apostle Paul reminds us in 2 Corinthians 5:7, “For we walk by faith, not by sight.” In our modern context, we might just as accurately say, we walk by faith, not by feelings. That verse underscores a deep truth: our Christian life is grounded not in what we see or feel, but in what we believe.

That includes our worship.

Now, don’t get me wrong—emotions are a God-given part of being human. Joy, sorrow, awe, even spiritual excitement—they’re all woven into the fabric of how we connect with God. But they were never meant to steer the ship. When emotions drive our worship, we risk turning it into something self-serving: “I worship when I feel good, or when God feels close.” But the call to worship goes deeper than that.

Worship is an act of faith. It is a declaration: God, You are worthy—no matter how I feel today. When we worship without strong feelings, we’re not being fake. We’re being faithful.

Consider Job, who lost nearly everything—his children, his health, his wealth. And what did he do? “Then Job arose and tore his robe and shaved his head and fell on the ground and worshiped” (Job 1:20). That verse should stop us in our tracks. Job didn’t worship because he felt good—he worshiped because he knew who God was, even in the worst moment of his life.

That kind of worship is powerful. It may be quiet. It may come with tears instead of lifted hands. But it is rich in truth. It honors God not just as the giver of blessings, but as Lord of all—even when the blessings are hard to see.

So if today feels flat, if your heart is weary and your emotions are low, take heart. You’re not alone. And more importantly, you’re not disqualified from worship. In fact, this kind of faith-filled praise might just be the most meaningful offering you can bring.

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III. Is It Hypocritical to Worship Without Feeling It?

One of the most common misconceptions about worship is the idea that it’s somehow hypocritical to worship God when we don’t feel like it. But let’s take a moment to ask—what does hypocrisy actually mean, biblically?

In Scripture, a hypocrite isn’t someone who acts differently than they feel. A hypocrite is someone who pretends to be something they’re not. Jesus reserved some of His harshest words for the Pharisees, not because they struggled with emotions, but because they were putting on a spiritual show while their hearts were far from God (Matthew 23:27–28).

So let’s be clear: worshipping God in a season when your emotions are dry is not hypocrisy—it’s obedience. It’s acting not based on feelings but based on truth. And that’s the very definition of faithfulness.

John 1:12 tells us that “to all who did receive him, who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God.” That’s your identity—a child of God. And as His child, you are called to worship Him, not because you always feel like it, but because He is worthy and you belong to Him.

Imagine showing up at church on a Sunday morning after a week of exhaustion or grief. You don’t feel spiritual. You’re not overflowing with joy. But you still stand during the songs. You still pray. You still listen. That’s not performance—it’s perseverance. It’s a sacrifice of praise (Hebrews 13:15), and it pleases God deeply.

Worship in the dry seasons is a beautiful act of love. It says, “Lord, You are still my God, even when I feel nothing.” That’s not hypocrisy. That’s what real faith looks like.


IV. God is Worthy—Always

At the heart of this whole issue is one unshakable truth: God is worthy of worship, no matter how we feel. Revelation 4:11 declares, “You are worthy, our Lord and God, to receive glory and honor and power, for you created all things, and by your will they were created and have their being.”

Notice that verse doesn’t make room for emotions. It doesn’t say, “You are worthy when I feel inspired,” or “You are worthy when things are going well.” It says You are worthy—period.

That truth should both comfort and challenge us. Because worship is not about our present emotional condition; it’s about God’s eternal character. He is holy, sovereign, gracious, and just. He is good even when our lives feel broken. And that unchanging worthiness is why we worship.

David understood this tension. In Psalm 103:1, he says, “Bless the Lord, O my soul, and all that is within me, bless his holy name.” David is literally talking to himself—telling his soul to get in line with the truth of who God is. That’s not emotional overflow—it’s spiritual leadership. It’s choosing to praise when the heart is sluggish or distracted.

When we declare God’s worth even when we don’t feel it, we’re aligning ourselves with reality. We’re lifting our eyes from the storm to the Savior. And over time, our emotions often catch up.

So yes, God wants our hearts—but not only when they’re overflowing with feeling. He also honors the worship that comes from a tired soul, a tearful voice, or a weary heart. Because that kind of worship says, “God, You are still worthy, even when I don’t feel it.” And nothing could be more true.

V. Setting Our Minds on Things Above

“Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things.” — Colossians 3:2

This short verse holds a powerful key to faithful worship, especially when we’re not “feeling it.” Worship requires intentionality. It’s not about drifting into an emotional state—it’s about deciding to focus on who God is and what He’s done, regardless of how we feel in the moment.

Our minds are often bombarded with distractions, burdens, and frustrations. And when our minds are set on those things, it’s no wonder our hearts struggle to worship. But Scripture invites us to shift our focus—to lift our eyes higher.

Worship begins in the mind. When we remind ourselves of God’s promises, His character, and His faithfulness, we’re practicing a discipline that reshapes our hearts over time. That’s why Colossians commands us to set our minds. It’s an active choice, not a passive drift.

This ties beautifully into Romans 12:1, where Paul urges us to “offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship.” Worship isn’t just a song or a feeling—it’s a whole-life response. It’s saying, “God, I’m Yours, even when I don’t feel spiritual, even when I don’t feel strong.”

So when you wake up and don’t feel like worshipping—start with the mind. Open the Word. Speak truth aloud. Reflect on who God is. You may not feel the rush of joy right away, but over time, the habit of worship forms a deeper well of faith. And that’s where lasting joy is found—not in fleeting feelings, but in the steadfast love of God.


VI. Different Personalities, Different Expressions

Let’s clear up another common misconception: you don’t have to worship like the person next to you to be sincere.

Some people raise their hands, dance, or weep during worship. Others are more still—quiet, thoughtful, inward. Both expressions can be equally genuine. Worship isn’t a performance, and God doesn’t grade us on volume or visible emotion.

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In fact, for many believers, especially those who are more introverted or analytical, worship may not look emotional at all. And that’s okay. Emotions can be a beautiful part of worship, but they’re not the measuring stick of sincerity.

What matters is the heart behind it. Psalm 51:17 reminds us, “The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart, O God, you will not despise.” God delights in a heart that seeks Him, whether it’s quiet or expressive, tearful or still.

So if you find yourself feeling “less spiritual” because your worship doesn’t look like someone else’s—take a deep breath. You’re not falling short. You’re being you. And God, who created you uniquely, receives that worship with joy.

How I’m Feeling What That Feels Like Faithful Ways to Participate in Worship
Joyful / Excited Energized, eager to sing and praise Sing freely and loudly, raise hands, smile at others, thank God openly
Thankful but Tired Grateful but worn out from the week Close your eyes, whisper your thanks, sing gently, rest your heart in His presence
Neutral / Numb Emotionally flat, not “into it” Sing anyway, focusing on the truth of the lyrics; read Scripture attentively; pray, “God, help me feel again”
Sad / Grieving Heavy-hearted, burdened, tearful Let tears fall if they come; stand quietly; whisper a simple prayer: “Lord, I still trust You”
Distracted / Anxious Mind racing with concerns or worries Take deep breaths; stand in reverence even if your mind is racing; ask God to center your heart
Discouraged / Distant from God Feel far from God or unworthy to worship Reflect on God’s grace; read Psalms; remind yourself: God welcomes me, not because I feel worthy, but because Jesus is
Overwhelmed / Burnt Out Spiritually drained, unsure what to say or feel Stand quietly in reverence; pray silently instead of singing; let God meet you in stillness and presence

VII. Encouragement for Dry Seasons

If you’ve been walking with Christ for any length of time, you’ve likely experienced a dry season—a time when worship feels like work, prayer feels like silence, and your heart seems far from the fire it once held. You’re not alone. Spiritual dryness is not only common; it’s part of the journey of faith.

The good news? God meets us there.

Dry seasons aren’t signs of failure—they’re invitations to deeper faith. During these times, it’s crucial to keep showing up. Stay in the Word, even if it feels routine. Sing anyway, even if your voice cracks. Pray honestly, even if all you can say is, “God, help me want to want You.”

Hebrews 13:15 encourages us to “continually offer up a sacrifice of praise to God, that is, the fruit of lips that acknowledge his name.” A sacrifice of praise implies that worship isn’t always convenient or emotionally satisfying. Sometimes it costs us something. But those offerings are precious to God.

In fact, some of the most powerful worship comes not from the mountaintops, but from the valleys. When we choose to praise God from a place of dryness, we declare that He is worthy—even here, even now. And that’s a worship heaven applauds.

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VIII. Conclusion: Keep Worshipping Anyway

So what do you do when you don’t feel like worshipping? You worship anyway.

Not because you’re trying to fake it or earn something—but because God is always worthy. Because obedience matters. Because your faith isn’t built on feelings, but on truth.

Emotions are real, and they can be a gift. But they are not always reliable guides. The steadfast love of the Lord, however, never wavers. And that’s where we anchor our worship.

So whether your heart is full or your spirit feels dry, lift your eyes to Him. Offer your praise—quiet or loud, tearful or tired. He sees it. He honors it.

Have you walked through a season like this? Share your experience below—your faith might encourage someone else today.


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